*smacks forehead* Dude....never ..NEVER do that! ;)

Blink twice if you are being held hostage

Yeah... with wives honesty is never the best policy....

it was nice knowing you....... 

Well that's one way to make sure she never brings her around you again. Maybe this was strategy? Maybe she's really annoying and he hates when she comes around so he said she was hot so she wwont bring her around anymore? 

Very bad karma.

As far as "loving her and not saying anything"...do you mean see the woman on the side?

I don't condone infidelity...*shrug*
 
thinking someone is attractive is hard to not do..but being true to your spouse?
You should be.
 

So my wife watches her best friends children (as well as my 4 children). Her best friend is always over. I also work with her - So I see her ALL the time. Not only do I see her at work, and around my house ALL the time, but she works out and does Insanity with me and my wife.

Like 2 months ago, I found myself thinking about her all the time - unable to sleep at night. This led to me having feeling of guilt/shame for feeling this way. So I decided to pray that God would help me not like her (I literally prayed that God would help me to not like her at all). So I tried to focus on the bad things about her. It worked!

So as my emotional feelings for her started to leave, I would complain that her friend was over WAY too much. I would tell my wife that I didnt like her friend because I see her like every day (even on my days off).

My wife was concerned that I didnt like her friend and kept asking me what changed/happened to make me feel this way. I kept using the above excuse and she didnt believe it. Wifey said that I liked her friend better than I like her, so it made no sense.

Then last night I accidentally told my wife (during alcoholic consumption - I seriously like NEVER drink, so I was a little out of it) that I prayed to not like her.

After this it was game over. She pryed me and pryed me and tortured me more until I came clean and told her that her friend is smoking hot - A milf to say the least. I told her that her friends bootie was awezome - multiple times :/

We had a huge blow up - wife ran off to get beer and drink at her friends house. I convinced her to come back home and drink with me.

I assured her that even though I did feel that way about her friend that I would NEVER act on those impulses. I truly live my life as a Christian to the best of my abilities. Jesus said that if you look at a woman with lustfull intentions you are already committing adultery in your heart. I work witj a bunch of Hot nurses and I do not look/check out hot girls's butts and cleavage.

She did need to know however that I AM atteacted to hot females. I cant help it - Im a man. So I tried to convince her for 2 hours that she was amazing and plenty good for me ( She is better than I deserve), and that I have been and will continue to be faithful to her).

Long story short men - When women try to get you to open up about your emotions - TREAD CAREFULLY

We kissed and made up and had greatalone makeup time. She is thinking about not watching her friends kids anymore. Thats the next hurdle we have to jump and figure out together

I applaud you for your honesty to her, my first reaction would be to blame the alcohol and try to back peddle but I have learned through almost 15 years of marriage to not even glance at another woman. Pretty easy since my wife is smoking hot but I feel your pain.

Posts edited -sorry about language :/

boylerya
You need to make lots of money to pull that off.

LOl - I don't make that much money.  However, I do love my wife with all of my heart.  She is an amazing woman, and she knows how much I truly love her.  My wife is seriously the most amazing woman in the world.  It just so happens that her friend is uber hot and I accidentally spilled the beans on that fact

Yea don't do that.

nateman_doo
am I the only one who wants pics of the bf??

While it may be good for some of us....I don't think it would benefit Vegeta. lol Nate

It will never be the same again. She will carry that in the back of her head 24/7 only to throw it in your face every so often. If she ever felt in secure. Its more then ever now. She just wont tell you. You will be treading on thin ice the rest of the marriage. I sincerely wish you the best. Being married. Its a damn if you don't and damned if you do ALWAYS. Case in point.