Nah the cooler the better, just means you have good airflow - just because the GPU is "designed" to operate in the 80sC for 3+ years & not die doesn't mean it should do so :-D
I would definitely fiddle with your GPU as much as you want though, maybe find that edge where it's just barely under where it loses stability, or go for a more happy medium with an undervolt-overclock, you can always have profiles for both, run the higher end clocks in tougher games, and the undervolt/OC on easier titles to conserve heat generation & save on some power draw.
That's sort of what I've been doing. I messed with it early on after pushing for max clocks for purely benchmarking, then got around to trying out some undervolt curves, tested 2100MHz @ 1025mV both in benchmark stress tests, and more importantly, games, and found it to be stable, then I decided to push on & see how I high I could go. Seems like 2160MHz @ 1068mV is about the limit, going higher than that for a set voltage point doesn't seem to work as in it doesn't STAY at that voltage (since Afterburner is STILL in Beta for Ampere cards, can't blame it too much), and going any higher on clocks results in crashes occasionally in Cyberpunk 2077 or visual errors like shadows occasionally flashing. The real kicker is the +1000 memory offset I can run along side that, I've never had a GPU with vRAM that could run an offset that
chonkay and actually be stable while doing it - haven't had an issue yet... but I've also only ran graphics stress tests & Cyberpunk 2077, I'm sure some games I'll have to run it lower, and in games that I play more competitively like CS:GO, I just run the card at the 2100MHz @ 1025mV, with no memory OC, to lower the temperatures since I run with my FPS capped at my 240Hz maximum refresh rate, just in that title.
Enjoy the setup man, that's nice lookin' build ya got there
Hopefully others will come along with more/other detailed suggestions, I'm not too uppity on OCing in terms of the CPUs these days, my 9900K is literally a "slap some voltage on it & put the multi at 50x" - I did more extensive work on RAM OCing for my system, but I don't run that for daily use anymore because the extra 400MHz didn't seem "worth it" overall.