Nvidia Boost technology .. you need to keep it cool & Manage how you use the Watts your allowed (fan speed - load vs Temps)
Silicon lottery ... no idea ... everyone's hardware will most likely be different & depends on the rest of your system
Is your MB OC stable ? --> CPU, RAM, & front-side bus
You Need stable power - quality PSU & power from the wall [personally I like to use a UPS of adequate capacity - to ensure Clean stable power]
Note Room temp, as it does impact hardware temps - thus OC - set case fans to Max or what you intend to run them at as you stated not after absolute Max OC
GPU-Z --> sensor tab is a great way to get some feedback on your systems reason for performance limits
1) baseline your card +0 default sliders
2) baseline with Max Temp & Power target sliders
3) Run the (Nvidia tool) to test Your OC of the GPU ... final result = "best stable" OC per the Nvidia tool in X1
4) Now work with the OC on your RAM as the tool does Not test RAM OC
5) After you found your Max OC - now reduce your settings about 10% to increase stability
Enjoy the adventure & remember every Game can have a different stable OC