SOLUTIONShort version, UEFI/BIOS changes:
1. Changed Primary Graphics to PCIe from Auto. Auto should have been fine, but...
2. Changed boot setting to UEFI for PCIe. I'm not really booting from PCIe per se, but I don't really understand UEFI, so what the hell.
Those two changes made Windows 8 happy as a clam. I previously had uninstalled the 750 Ti and drivers, rebooted to make the UEFI changes and the Nvidia installer had no complaints -- even though Device Manager showed PCI device Yellow Circle Exclamation Point!. Oddly, this is still true after the driver install and correct identification of the card under Display adapters. Someone let me know if I care about this.
Then I booted into Windows 10.
Windows 10 did not care about the UEFI changes, the NV installer could find no compatible hardware. I made one more change (under Secure Boot, changed from Windows UEFI to Other OS). Same result. So, on a whim, I downloaded the NV Studio Driver and it immediately liked what it saw and ran. This is pretty odd since I downloaded the latest Game Ready drivers just before today's session began. I really don't know why the Studio version worked, but it's my preference anyway since I'm all about content creation and not gaming.
Thanks to everyone for their input, I appreciate it.
post edited by Sajin - 2019/11/21 15:42:58