Ok so after spending 1 hour and 40 minutes on the phone with Bioware and 30 minutes on the phone with EA I figured out how to change your email on your SWTOR account to your EA/Origin email. This will require you to call EA support
Step 1 - If your EA account has the email you want your SWTOR account to have, you must change the EA account email to a different email.
Step 2 - After changing your EA account email you can now change your SWTOR email to the email you wanted.
Step 3 - Your SWTOR email should now be the email that your EA account was previously using before you changed it, and your EA email should be the email you don't want.
Step 4 - Now call EA (1-866-543-5435) click 2 on your phone when the automated voice asks you to choose an option and wait to get connected to Tech Support.
Step 4 - Once you get connected ask them to change your EA email to your SWTOR email, A.K.A the email you want everything to be linked under.
I hope this helps anyone in the future and I hope it saves you time.
P.S. EA Support is awesome.
Specs updated 2016