Blackhawk, Please change the memory command clock from 1T to 2T and also, please edit your template and add the values showing next to ALL settings that are on Auto....thankx.
 
EDIT: Are these the modules that you have? I cannot find any that have an "R" at the end of the model number.

Yes, need to know what the Auto setting set the FSB and CPU Core Voltage to, but I would make a few changes, get a few things off Auto (especially CPU Core Voltage) and set manually, see how it goes..Read this  too about running 8GB memory on nForce board..There is a BIOS update (P10) but it's for Improved CPU Compatibility which you don't need worry about.
PCle x16-1 & 16-2, MHz:  [100]
PCle x16-3, MHz:  [100]
SPPc->MCP Ref Clock, MHz:  [200]
P1: [Enabled]
P2: [Enabled]
Command Per Clock: [2T]
CPU Core: [1.4] (for starters, for now)
CPU FSB: [1.4]
CPU Thermal Control: [TM1 & TM2] (if you want maximum overheat protection, i would/do)

Here is the like to my power supply , http://www.thermaltakeusa...1264&ID=1502  also sry for the confusion on the memory , that's what was on the package at the end of the string, and I was debating putting that in the post or not in the beginning .I've been building computers for a long time and tweaking them , but have not had the experience with this type of ram before, so when I saw your post on memory timings, of course I had to pick your brain for the experience. Did'nt mean to cause mass confusion . TY for the settings, I will plug them in and test them out . I never turn my computer off unless I'm changing parts, so It'll certainly get a proper burn-in ! I made all changes, gave you the GTLVREF values you were looking for . BBK with results ! TY  Blackhawk
CPU Freq, MHz: 3600 GHZ 3.6
FSB Reference Clock, MHz:1600 ****
CPU Multiplier: [*9]
PCle x16-1 & 16-2, MHz:  [AUTO] 100 
PCle x16-3, MHz:  [AUTO] 100
SPPc->MCP Ref Clock, MHz:  [AUTO] 200
nForce SPP --> nForce MCP:   [5X]
nForce SPP c-- nForce MCP:   [5X]
**Spread Spectrum**
CPU Spread Spectrum: [Disabled]
HT Spread Spectrum: [Disabled]
PCle Spread Spectrurn(SPP): [Disabled]
PCle Spread Spectrurn(MCP): [Disabled]
SATA Spread Spectrum: [Disabled]
**FSB & Memorv Config**
FSB - Memory Clock Mode: [LINKED]
FSB - Memory Ratio:SYNC MODE
FSB (QDR), MHz: [1600] should be 1600 not 1601
Actual FSB (QDR), MHz: 1600
x MEM (DDR),  MHz: 1600
Actual MEM (DDR), MHz: 1600
P1: [AUTO]
P2: [AUTO]
**Memory Timing Setting**
Memory Timing Setting: [EXPERT]
tCL (CAS Latency): 9
tRCD: 9
tRP: 9
tRAS: 24
Command Per Clock: [2T] Manually set to 2T
** Advanced Memory Settings **
tRRD: [Auto 6]
tRC: [Auto 41]
tWR: [Auto 12] These are fine
tWTR: [Auto 18]
tFAW: [Auto 31]
tREF: [Auto 7.8]
tRFC: 88
**System Voltages**
CPU Core: [1.3] Manually set to 1.3v 
CPU FSB: [1.3] Manually set to 1.3v 
Memory: [1.8] Manually set to 1.8v 
nForce SPP: [1.45]
nForce MCP: [1.55] Manually set to 1.55v / 
GTLVREF Lane 0: [Auto] -50mv
GTLVREF Lane 1: [Auto] -50mv      [ These are the values Jeff ,  looks exactly as shown ]
GTLVREF Lane 2: [Auto] +00mv
GTLVREF Lane 3: [Auto] +00mv
**CPU Configuration**
Limit CPUlD Maxval: Disabled
Intel Speedstep: Disabled
xPPM Mode: [Native]
CPU Thermal Control: [TM1 and TM2 ] Enable for TM1 and TM2 
C1E Enhanced Halt State: [Disabled]
Execute Disable Bit: [Enabled]
Virtualization Technology: [Disabled]
CPU Core 0: [Enabled]
CPU Core 1: [Enabled]
CPU Core 2: [Enabled]
CPU Core 3: [Enabled

That is good news, way to go, Bob!!
 
Blackhawk, no.....you do not NEED 8GB's of system RAM installed for gaming. Sounds like your board reacts just like mine does...I also cannot run 8GB's of RAM at 1600MHz which, is what I was trying to find out.
 
However; I can, and am.....easily running 8GB's at 1800MHz so, once we know that you can get stable with 4GB's at 1600MHz.....we'll see if you can run all 8GB's at 1800MHz if, you would like to try that.
 
I am a little concerned about your PSU. The spex show that it has 4 - 18amp rails with a combined loading of 60amps. Each 470 requires 38amps and then you've got the rest of your hardware on top of that. I would seriously consider upgrading to at least a 1000watt PSU just to make darn sure everything is receiving the proper amount of power. 

Hey guy's Ty for your help  !!! I took your advice and purchaced this power supply from Newegg, and should have it next week . Ya I've been kinda been wondering if the 750w was a little to low in power, so your observation made my mind up !  http://www.newegg.com/Pro...x?Item=N82E16817121070 Also if you think because I have the other 4gb of ram it's worth messing with , I'll try it . Ty Blackhawk 

I know what your saying but I did'nt decide on this one on a whim . I looked at ones that were 189.00-300.00 dollars , and not many have a 12 volt rail rating of 35,36 amps . So I thought this one should do the trick with the 35 amp rails , and SLI certification. It got a pretty good review . I already have a Coolmax 950W, and I paid 179.00 dollars for that a year ago, and thought of using that one, but even that's only rated at 25 amps on the 12 volt rails. So thought I'd take a chance . Hey, I'm trying your guys suggestions without breaking the bank.. I did'nt expect I would have such a hard time with an upgrade of memory like this , as I ran my rig with the Patriot Viper 1333 8gb for 3 years without so much as a hick up. Now I feel like all I've done is bought myself a headache , and more expense to try to make the ram work. Plus now I can't even play a game without crashing to the desktop. I know you guy are trying to help, I'm just starting to get frustrated !

Let me ask you this , after reading your post about the different timing set up you did, I noticed that you had said you put your 4gb of ram in the black slots . Which I don't have mine in . And this is one of the details I should have noticed at first, which could account for some , or all of my problems . What do you think ? I also noticed, when I down clock the ram from stock FSB 1600 to 1333 , I can then play all my games now without being kicked back to the desktop .

Last nite I changed the ram to the black slots ,went back into the bios and made these changes, and now I can play my games again without  getting kicked back to the desktop, and the apps. open like they used to also. Generally running great ! These are the changes I made : changed ram voltage by a half volt, from 1.8v  to 1.85v ,increased the CPU voltage from 1.3v to 1.3265 , changed the CPU FSB to 1778 for 4.0ghz and went to unlinked,and lastly, changed my memory to where it's supposed to be, 1600 , and kept the stock timings at 9 9 9 24 2T . Refer to bios set up for further details. And I downloaded the memtest, and will run that when I get home from work tonite . CPU Freq, MHz: 4.000 GHZ 4.0Ghz
FSB Reference Clock, MHz:1778 ****
CPU Multiplier: [*9]
PCle x16-1 & 16-2, MHz:  [AUTO] 100 
PCle x16-3, MHz:  [AUTO] 100
SPPc->MCP Ref Clock, MHz:  [AUTO] 200
nForce SPP --> nForce MCP:   [5X]
nForce SPP c-- nForce MCP:   [5X]
**Spread Spectrum**
CPU Spread Spectrum: [Disabled]
HT Spread Spectrum: [Disabled]
PCle Spread Spectrurn(SPP): [Disabled]
PCle Spread Spectrurn(MCP): [Disabled]
SATA Spread Spectrum: [Disabled]
**FSB & Memorv Config**
FSB - Memory Clock Mode: [UNLINKED]  Changed to Unlinked
FSB - Memory Ratio:       Turned SYNC OFF
FSB (QDR), MHz: [1778]                        [   Changed to1778    ]
Actual FSB (QDR), MHz: 1600
x MEM (DDR),  MHz: 1600
Actual MEM (DDR), MHz: 1600
P1: [Enabled]     Changed to Enabled for both
P2: [Enabled]
**Memory Timing Setting**
Memory Timing Setting: [EXPERT]
tCL (CAS Latency): 9
tRCD: 9
tRP: 9
tRAS: 24
Command Per Clock: [2T] Manually set to 2T      Changed to 2T
** Advanced Memory Settings **
tRRD: [Auto 6]
tRC: [Auto 41]
tWR: [Auto 12] These are fine
tWTR: [Auto 18]
tFAW: [Auto 31]
tREF: [Auto 7.8]
tRFC: 88
**System Voltages**
CPU Core: [1.3265] Manually set to 1.3v   Changed to 1.3265v
CPU FSB: [1.3] Manually set to 1.3v 
Memory: [1.850] Manually set to 1.8v     Changed to 1.850v
nForce SPP: [1.45]
nForce MCP: [1.65] Manually set to 1.55v /   Changed to 1.65v
GTLVREF Lane 0: [Auto] -50mv
GTLVREF Lane 1: [Auto] -50mv      [ These are the values Jeff ,  looks exactly as shown ]
GTLVREF Lane 2: [Auto] +00mv
GTLVREF Lane 3: [Auto] +00mv
**CPU Configuration**
Limit CPUlD Maxval: Disabled
Intel Speedstep: Disabled
xPPM Mode: [Native]
CPU Thermal Control: [TM1 and TM2 ] Enable for TM1 and TM2 
C1E Enhanced Halt State: [Disabled]
Execute Disable Bit: [Enabled]
Virtualization Technology: [Disabled]
CPU Core 0: [Enabled]
CPU Core 1: [Enabled]
CPU Core 2: [Enabled]

Your Right Jeffry , I made a mistake in the the template ,It was early in the morning before work, and I was trying to get all the info if for ya . but I ment for you to know that I had set the CPU FSB to 1778Mhz to bump up the clock cycles to 4Ghz . Sry bout that, but you understand now right ? I'm going to run this way for a while to see if it's stable . So TY for your help so far, and I hope that you'll continue to help me in the near future !!  So if you look back at the template I made the change to reflect the FSB (QDR) [1778] in my last post . TY , Blackhawk

You bet, I'm more than willing to try those timings out Jeff , I will plug those in when I get home from work tonite . Also I printed out the working bios settings I'm at right now for reference.
And the timings ,and voltages you just gave me to experiment with . I will keep you posted .    P.S. Hope your not getting bored with my case . I to have read many of your other posts before contacting you, and were also going to recommend you for another blue ribbon !! I truly appreciate all your help !!! Oh and I 'm a Professional driver to, not retired yet , but close. Thanx man, Blackhawk

Ok Jeff, I set the FSB (QDR) [1800] , And set the tRAS to 27, and the memory ratio to LINKED AND SYNCED
 , see bios changed below so far  so good !!4.05Ghz Did not change the ram voltage..left at 1.85v . played BF2 without any problems ! Oh and , this is 4gb of ram 2x2 , man I'm gettin real happy !!!
FSB Reference Clock, MHz:1800 ****
CPU Multiplier: [*9]
PCle x16-1 & 16-2, MHz:  [AUTO] 100 
PCle x16-3, MHz:  [AUTO] 100
SPPc->MCP Ref Clock, MHz:  [AUTO] 200
nForce SPP --> nForce MCP:   [5X]
nForce SPP c-- nForce MCP:   [5X]
**Spread Spectrum**
CPU Spread Spectrum: [Disabled]
HT Spread Spectrum: [Disabled]
PCle Spread Spectrurn(SPP): [Disabled]
PCle Spread Spectrurn(MCP): [Disabled]
SATA Spread Spectrum: [Disabled]
**FSB & Memorv Config**
FSB - Memory Clock Mode: [LINKED]         Changed to linked
FSB - Memory Ratio: [SYNC]      Turned SYNC ON
FSB (QDR), MHz: [1800]                        [   Changed to 1800    ]
Actual FSB (QDR), MHz: 1800
x MEM (DDR),  MHz: 1800
Actual MEM (DDR), MHz: 1800
P1: [Enabled]     Changed to Enabled for both
P2: [Enabled]
**Memory Timing Setting**
Memory Timing Setting: [EXPERT]
tCL (CAS Latency): 9
tRCD: 9
tRP: 9
tRAS: 27        Changed to 27
Command Per Clock: [2T] Manually set to 2T      Changed to 2T
** Advanced Memory Settings **
tRRD: [Auto 6]
tRC: [Auto 41]
tWR: [Auto 12] These are fine
tWTR: [Auto 18]
tFAW: [Auto 31]
tREF: [Auto 7.8]
tRFC: 88
**System Voltages**
CPU Core: [1.3265] Manually set to 1.3v   Changed to 1.3265v
CPU FSB: [1.3] Manually set to 1.3v 
Memory: [1.850] Manually set to 1.8v     Changed to 1.850v
nForce SPP: [1.45]
nForce MCP: [1.65] Manually set to 1.55v /   Changed to 1.65v
GTLVREF Lane 0: [Auto] -50mv
GTLVREF Lane 1: [Auto] -50mv      [ These are the values Jeff ,  looks exactly as shown ]
GTLVREF Lane 2: [Auto] +00mv
GTLVREF Lane 3: [Auto] +00mv
**CPU Configuration**
Limit CPUlD Maxval: Disabled
Intel Speedstep: Disabled
xPPM Mode: [Native]
CPU Thermal Control: [TM1 and TM2 ] Enable for TM1 and TM2 
C1E Enhanced Halt State: [Disabled]
Execute Disable Bit: [Enabled]
Virtualization Technology: [Disabled]
CPU Core 0: [Enabled]
CPU Core 1: [Enabled]
CPU Core 2: [Enabled]

By all means, Jeff , I gamed pretty hard last nite with my clan, and was tearin them a new one..hehe , they said " what did you do build a new rig" !! I  said "No I got a secret weapon, code name JEFFBOB "!!   lol..anyway I'll keep you up to date . Thanx again in a big  way Jeff & Bob!! Blackhawk

Ok, I will after running this for a bit, and then will get to the 8gb  add in . Blackhawk

Hey Jeff, if I go ahead and install the other two 2x2gb of ram in for 8gb, what timings would I be looking at for that set up ,sense I'm stable at this setting right now . FSB Reference Clock, MHz:1800 ****
CPU Multiplier: [*9]
PCle x16-1 & 16-2, MHz:  [AUTO] 100 
PCle x16-3, MHz:  [AUTO] 100
SPPc->MCP Ref Clock, MHz:  [AUTO] 200
nForce SPP --> nForce MCP:   [5X]
nForce SPP c-- nForce MCP:   [5X]
**Spread Spectrum**
CPU Spread Spectrum: [Disabled]
HT Spread Spectrum: [Disabled]
PCle Spread Spectrurn(SPP): [Disabled]
PCle Spread Spectrurn(MCP): [Disabled]
SATA Spread Spectrum: [Disabled]
**FSB & Memorv Config**
FSB - Memory Clock Mode: [LINKED]         Changed to linked
FSB - Memory Ratio: [SYNC]      Turned SYNC ON
FSB (QDR), MHz: [1800]                        [   Changed to 1800    ]
Actual FSB (QDR), MHz: 1800
x MEM (DDR),  MHz: 1800
Actual MEM (DDR), MHz: 1800
P1: [Enabled]     Changed to Enabled for both
P2: [Enabled]
**Memory Timing Setting**
Memory Timing Setting: [EXPERT]
tCL (CAS Latency): 9
tRCD: 9
tRP: 9
tRAS: 27        Changed to 27
Command Per Clock: [2T] Manually set to 2T      Changed to 2T
** Advanced Memory Settings **
tRRD: [Auto 6]
tRC: [Auto 41]
tWR: [Auto 12] These are fine
tWTR: [Auto 18]
tFAW: [Auto 31]
tREF: [Auto 7.8]
tRFC: 88
**System Voltages**
CPU Core: [1.3265] Manually set to 1.3v   Changed to 1.3265v
CPU FSB: [1.3] Manually set to 1.3v 
Memory: [1.850] Manually set to 1.8v     Changed to 1.850v
nForce SPP: [1.45]
nForce MCP: [1.65] Manually set to 1.55v /   Changed to 1.65v
GTLVREF Lane 0: [Auto] -50mv
GTLVREF Lane 1: [Auto] -50mv      [ These are the values Jeff ,  looks exactly as shown ]
GTLVREF Lane 2: [Auto] +00mv
GTLVREF Lane 3: [Auto] +00mv
**CPU Configuration**
Limit CPUlD Maxval: Disabled
Intel Speedstep: Disabled
xPPM Mode: [Native]
CPU Thermal Control: [TM1 and TM2 ] Enable for TM1 and TM2 
C1E Enhanced Halt State: [Disabled]
Execute Disable Bit: [Enabled]
Virtualization Technology: [Disabled]
CPU Core 0: [Enabled]
CPU Core 1: [Enabled]
CPU Core 2: [Enabled]