This has been posted on another message, so this is repeat:
For EVGA 3090 FTW:
Do not use thermal pads, they do not perform as well as the stock thermal putty that EVGA uses. I tried various thermal pads (over $100 worth) and I could not get better memory junction temperatures then stock. You must use thermal putty.
This is what I used TG-PP10-50 (if you are American, use digikey.com web site to buy. I used digikey.ca to buy):
It's expensive, but it works way better then thermal pads. You will need lots, it took 20g just to do the backplate. If you're redoing the entire card order 50g (maybe even 100g).
For the GPU use a good thermal paste, like noctula.
Edit:
for some reason I can't post a URL link to digikey. I will post picture.
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