Ok, im gonna put up what ive done with some very good results and give everyone some hope here. So i tore down my card and put the hybrid kit on recently, but i didnt change the pads that came inside the shroud, just the TIM for the gpu, which i used TF8 for and of course i cleaned the mem and gpu before hand. That all went fine with no problems. For the rear though i did some experimenting. I got a bag of copper shims, an assortment of 100, that all came in stacks of 10 different sizes and thickness' up to 2mm thick. I lined them up over the mems, 2mm thick ones, and the widths were good but they were a little long so i dremeled the extra off and sand/polished them. Then i put TF8 on the mems, just enough to cover them thinly and entirely.That way the TIM fills in the micro imperfections and then added the shims on top.Once they were all on i put strips of Fujipoly ultra extreme 17w/mk 0.5mm on top to mate the shims to the backplate with. Screwed the plate back on and it was perfect, even slightly tight id say with a very slight hump over the mems, but barely noticeable. It worked really good, way better than i thought it would.
Thats only half the battle cause i still had to mount the rads, evga cpu AIO too. So in my case im a little limited for placements without a bunch of chopping, which i can do no problem but i really didnt want to tear this case up....yet.
So i mounted the Noctua 3000 rpm industrials to the gpu rad and put that up front, hoses down, and this will be the one that draws the air in since the gpu doesnt run as hot as my cpu. CPU rad went behind the gpu rad with push/pull and EK Furious vardar EVO's 3000 rpms too, but the cpu hoses had to go up top or it wouldnt work. All these fans went to a proper fan controller, FC2, and got Phanteks Halo LUX RGB frames also....it was a wiring nightmare. So i ended up with maybe a 3/4" gap on both sides where they are mounted so i stuffed 1" soft foam in that gap to seal the air off from spilling out the sides and snugging up the rads.
I know this has been quite a problem for alot of people but this little mod seems to have done the trick. So YES, there is hope. If you need any other info let me know and ill give it to you. I dont want to turn this into a book here! Good luck to those who try it....i think youll be really pleasantly surprised if you try it.