I ran a few benchmarks in RDR2 today with the EVGA 3080 FTW3 Ultra at 3440x1440@100hz. Settings were all set to highest (ultra) and the memory usage was around 5600MB.
(I am aware 4.9m pixels is around 60% of 4k so not a fair comparison, but wanted to share my findings)
I too was wondering if 10GB was on the low side for higher pixel density displays with higher refresh rates, but RDR2 and TD2 both run at ultra, at 3440x1440@100hz without issue.
Edit: I think it's worth stating that at 3440x1440@100hz I am not getting a locked 100fps at ultra settings, but I'm also not hitting any VRAM issues.