Yikes. Seems there's a quality control issue with the 3090 eh? Maybe it's like one batch was bad or something. Hopefully it's not a truly widespread issue because that would mean people waiting to get one are going to have to wait even longer, if it's not an issue they can "fix" in a hurry & return the card to you... and if said users have Advanced RMA... how will that even work right now when 3090s are so scarce? lol
I feel bad for anyone that spent this much on GPU just to have a power-plug issue so soon... especially if their PSU is not to blame, which it's sounding like that's not the issue. Hopefully it is something as simple as a power plug on the GPU being bad, that should be an easy fix. If it's a power circuitry issue RIP supply for a while.
As an aside to the original poster: what is the PSU this happened with & have you tried a different, more powerful one, to insure the PSU isn't the issue? Even if it's a quality unit, depending on it's age, parts do degrade over time, especially PSU components.
One of the reasons I buy eVGA whenever I can is their customer service & ease of the RMA service. I've never had an RMA with another company go as smooth as they do with eVGA, save the occasional return I do with Amazon, which is about as easy.