Thank you to everyone for the feedback so far, I tend to agree that my #1 is/was largely just a Windows HDR quirk as suggested and am largely writing that off for now. (though I NEVER experienced this with my 2080ti FTW3 Ultra)
My main outstanding concern now is an issue with getting no video output at all from the PC from a cold boot until after some undetermined amount of time, EXCEPT the initial BIOS splash screen. I want to front load this with the fact that I NEVER experienced this with my 2080ti FTW3 Ultra and beyond the GPU/drivers, nothing else has changeg with the system.
Generally the delay in video output will be anywhere between 30s-120s, with seemingly no real rhyme or reason as to why it starts working. When it does start working, I'll be at the Windows 10 desktop. What's interesting to me is that it
always shows the BIOS splash screen just fine (not HDR), and once it starts to boot into Windows, the signal cuts out and the TV shows no signal though it does recognize that something is plugged into the HDMI port if you look at the input window. While doing some testing this morning I actually had a white VGA error light on the board show up after waiting ~2minutes for video to display, and when I was walking over to look at the LED the screen lit up without me touching anything at all. I did a power cycle and the VGA light was gone and things are working normally again. It's almost like something's odd with the HDMI handshake as it attempts to boot into Windows, which triggers HDR.
Any thoughts on this one?