Thanks for that great demos ChristoJ.
I always do the 'tinting', although my method is covering a finger in gladwrap and then rubbing an almost invisible layer of TIM on both surfaces.
I usually use the spreader method after that, using a thin credit card to spread the TIM (actually it's one of my medical insurance cards, which is a lot thinner than a standard credit card). Seems to work well every time for me.
After viewing your demos, I might try a slightly elongated pea size next time and see how that goes. Certainly easier than spreading with a card.
Just an additional note; the type of TIM used can make quite a difference to the application method used. I was a regular user of one of the Shin-Etsu pastes a few years back, and while it had very good conductivity, the stuff was tacky and hard to apply, and that is when I started using the spreader method because the pea or rice grain method didn't always spread fully or evenly with the tackier TIM, even after a solid break-in period (meaning a good number of hours blasting Prime95). Last couple of years I've been using Arctic MX-4, which is a lot more forgiving to work with, so I think the pea method may work well with this thinner TIM.
Cheers.