Sorry, one more post, most conclusive evidence that the card is NOT drawing power correctly
400w standard BIOS
450w OC BIOS
Same curve profile in afterburner, barely any difference between the two. In fact, for the bigger laugh, the power draw spike of 403w on the default BIOS is higher than the 401w on the "450w BIOS". Pegged around same frequency. Same iCUE 12v power reading. There has been no increase in the ability for the card to draw more power, even GPU-Z correctly states performance cap due to Power.
Will forward this onto EVGA. Either the BIOS is faulty (unlikely) or EVGA has lied about this being a proper 3 pin power delivery card. In which case it's wrongly advertised, though chances are they'd weasel their way out of this saying it's sold rated for up to 400w. Or, it's a total lottery if your card is manufactured better than other people's 3080s and you MIGHT have the ability to draw power correctly on the third pin.
Now I understand the total silence from EVGA/Jacob. Poor show given how good EVGAs customer service normally is and how they handled the New World blows up GPUs drama.
Given other manufacturers of 3 pin cards do not suffer from this, my conclusion at the moment is AVOID all EVGA 3080/3090 products (other than Ti, apparently they didn't cheapen out there, unsurprisingly). Can this be fixed with a BIOS/Firmware update? Doubt it, seeing as EVGA have done absolutely nothing for around a year now and they seem to be refusing any RMA requests based on power draw. Seems they seriously cheapened out on whatever the controller is that manages card power delivery on the 3080/3090 FTW3. Incredibly stupid move given the FTW3 cards are always some of the most expensive RRPs.
I will stand corrected if wrong and/or this can be fixed, and as I said above I am recognising EVGA's usual great customer service. Radio silence on explaining this though
is very poor.