wow...no one knows or does not want to share huh?    I ran mem test at 3400 and had errors xmp 2 still will not turn on 
im at a loss here, so I put it back to 3200 and its stable no errors for now... hope somebody has an idea what is going 
on with this as I really would like to get it to 3600 at least.   

I change the bclk up to 106 and managed to get it to 3600 but just wanted it to get there and rebooted and put it back to 3200 for now....I really would like to understand why the memory does not report in the bios as xmp 2.0 and only shows as xmp 1.0  using the latest bios for this board and thought that it would be able to do it no problem without overclocking anything... also I did notice the bios show's it capable of going to 4000 mhz on memory now, but that does not explain why xmp 2 shoes as unsupported in the memory  tab in the bios... once it gets to windows a couple other strange things show .. like the memory usage it is reserving 11.1 gb for hardware with 16.5 gb available and 4 used for the os I will attach a screenshot. it also shows conflicting frequencies as I have it set to 3200 mhz when this screenshot was taken and show's 32gb installed with only 20 usable.... kind of confusing what is going on with that ... any idea's?
thanks for the response