Figured out how to fix it and recreate it literally when I come off a vf curve static lock ontop of a offset to where i'm sitting at say 2070 on the core and 4428 on the mem then I restart then it forces the memory to drop 200mhz on the memory regardless of offset or stock under load and then I go into the dev mode of nvidia control panel and then turn of gpu counters then turn it off by just doing say yes apply it then keep changes no and then it's back to the normal clock with a +425 offset on the memory like I would normally run on the card