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2014/04/17 20:40:51 (permalink)
Wow...lol, Seriously?
 
One rule stated that a bullied kid should "treat the person who is being mean as if they're trying to help you." Another instructed students not to "tell on" bullies and "learn to laugh at yourself."
 

 
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    Re: How not to be bullied.... 2014/04/17 20:43:57 (permalink)
    I had 1 bully during high school.
     
    Needless to say, It didn't last long. Once I took out the butterfly knife which I had bought in Mexico, he never came up to me again. I had him in 3 classes and he just ignored me. God I miss my butterfly.

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    Re: How not to be bullied.... 2014/04/17 20:44:08 (permalink)
    Yeah when I was a freshman in high school the seniors would haze the freshman class.  They eventually got to me while I was eating lunch and I told them to leave me alone...  The two of them refused so I used the ice pack my mother put in my lunch and hit one of them in the face as hard as possible then tackled the other one and starting punching his face.  I had been the target of bullying since 5th grade but after that moment no one ever picked on me again.  The only rule and true way to not get bullied is to stand up and fight back.  Then again when I was a senior some one got in my face in the middle of history and tried to bully me.  So I got up and threw my desk on him.  Finished Highschool without ever having another incident...  RushXTC that is how it's done!
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    Re: How not to be bullied.... 2014/04/17 20:53:45 (permalink)
    I stabbed a guy in the arm in the lunch room with a plastic fork after I got sick of him taking my chocolate milk.  That was the last day that my chocolate milk was at risk.

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    Re: How not to be bullied.... 2014/04/17 20:59:20 (permalink)
     
    I always thought CMD was the bully. LOL.          

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    Re: How not to be bullied.... 2014/04/17 21:16:21 (permalink)
    This wasn't really a bullying incident. But, none the less. A kid in my high school kept on talking smack about my mom. So one day after lunch I was about 15ft in front of him walking up the stairs. I got to the top and he was half way up the stairs. I turned around and did a high flying jimmy snooka elbow to this face off the top of the stairs. 
     
    In all seriousness. You have to stick up for yourself.
     
     

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    Re: How not to be bullied.... 2014/04/17 21:18:20 (permalink)
    I was known for being hazardous with my pens (Zebra F-301s) and pencils (Pentel Quicker Clicker).  You would get a warning, then I would stab you with them, usually in a sensitive spot like the back of the hand or forearm.
    I was considered an odd duck, so between my tendency to stab people who really annoyed me and my odd demeanor, people mostly left me alone.
     
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    Re: How not to be bullied.... 2014/04/17 21:38:59 (permalink)
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    I always thought CMD was the bully. LOL.          




    I've actually gotten into fights with bullies to protect kids who couldn't otherwise protect themselves...
     
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    Re: How not to be bullied.... 2014/04/17 21:53:19 (permalink)
    I bullied the bullies myself. So I guess I am like Robin Hood. Yeah that's it Robin Hood

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    Re: How not to be bullied.... 2014/04/17 22:03:16 (permalink)
    sinned.
    I bullied the bullies myself. So I guess I am like Robin Hood. Yeah that's it Robin Hood


    It's only Robin Hood if you took their lunch money and gave it to the kids with no lunch money.

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    Re: How not to be bullied.... 2014/04/17 22:05:51 (permalink)
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    I bullied the bullies myself. So I guess I am like Robin Hood. Yeah that's it Robin Hood


    It's only Robin Hood if you took their lunch money and gave it to the kids with no lunch money.



    Why not be Peter Pan instead? Take the kids! =P

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    Re: How not to be bullied.... 2014/04/17 22:07:14 (permalink)
    ^we call that Pedophile....

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    Re: How not to be bullied.... 2014/04/17 22:11:40 (permalink)
    Was bullied in the 5th grade, guy tried to come back at me in 7th and I grinded his face on the asphalt. All the guys around me said he tripped and fell on the Asphalt, after that he never talked to me again. I really, REALLY hate bullies.

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    Re: How not to be bullied.... 2014/04/17 22:11:59 (permalink)
    im so confused ,i thought bullies are baby bulls  this makes no sense 

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    Re: How not to be bullied.... 2014/04/17 22:58:59 (permalink)
    I got bullied in middle/high school but the worst part is when I slammed the bully's face into the locker and gave him a few stitches, I GOT IN TROUBLE. Not fair


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    Re: How not to be bullied.... 2014/04/17 23:39:24 (permalink)
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    I bullied the bullies myself. So I guess I am like Robin Hood. Yeah that's it Robin Hood


    It's only Robin Hood if you took their lunch money and gave it to the kids with no lunch money.


    That's Uncle Sam not Robin Hood


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    Re: How not to be bullied.... 2014/04/18 00:20:42 (permalink)
    My life was tough growing up, back in Russia I had a lot of bullies growing up. I had only a few friends who were my best friends. When I moved to Canada at 10, I was bullied in elementary school, up until the point that I just went from being a small 4"5' tall 6th grader to a 5"10 7th grader over one summer.. Being the tallest kid in elementary school was pretty cool.
     
    basically the point of my part-life story is instead of feeling crappy when someone bullies you, make it your plate of food. Eat that hate and make yourself stronger. That is one of the lessons I learned that can not only be used to fight off bullies, but in business too. No matter how good or bad your idea is, you will receive hatred. Use that hatred to build your strength and beliefs that you will succeed. That is why I personally chose to become an entrepreneur and personally believe that I think different from the regular crowd. I know it involves risk and high chance of failure. Yet nearly every successful person will tell you that "I'm not successful because I got lucky, I'm successful because I failed more times than you."
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    TL;DR When people start hating, then you are probably doing something right, or they want to be like you.
     
     
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    Re: How not to be bullied.... 2014/04/18 17:19:00 (permalink)
    Never been bullied, always fought back. Stabbed a dude 3 times my size with a pen straight in the eye and ran, suffice to say dude never came after me again.


      


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    Re: How not to be bullied.... 2014/04/18 18:01:33 (permalink)
    Been bullied before in Jr. High.  I was kind of a tolerant passive person until somebody threw a class book at the back of my head.  They weren't so lucky next go around when I dragged them screaming down the halls to the main office. 
     
    Naturally, my choice actions weren't tolerated by the teachers, so I got in trouble too.  That the correct action that I should have taken was to tell a teacher.  And they wonder why bullies continue to be bullies.

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    Re: How not to be bullied.... 2014/04/18 20:12:04 (permalink)
    Zillers have to agree with you 
     
     Yet nearly every successful person will tell you that "I'm not successful because I got lucky, I'm successful because I failed more times than you."
    Very true read about Hersheys Chocolate, Babe Ruth and Abraham Lincoln fail your way to success monetarily speaking and or personal values. 
    Was never bullied because of my attitude and size. We had bullies in school that took advantage of other class mates. Often intervened and was one of those kids that would fight at the drop of a hat. Always felt like  talk was cheap with an attitude of fairness. Lets put it this way facing some court orders my grand father signed paper work so I could enlist in the USMC in 1967 one year prior to high school graduation. My wife and I are celebrating our 45th wedding anniversary with our children and grand children. Our grandson asked me the other day if I ever wanted to change any thing in my life. Told him no, because my failures and success made me who I am today.

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    Re: How not to be bullied.... 2014/04/18 20:14:54 (permalink)
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    Zillers have to agree with you   Yet nearly every successful person will tell you that "I'm not successful because I got lucky, I'm successful because I failed more times than you."Very true read about Hersheys Chocolate, Babe Ruth and Abraham Lincoln fail your way to success monetarily speaking and or personal values. Was never bullied because of my attitude and size. We had bullies in school that took advantage of other class mates. Often intervened and was one of those kids that would fight at the drop of a hat. Always felt like  talk was cheap with an attitude of fairness. Lets put it this way facing some court orders my grand father signed paper work so I could enlist in the USMC in 1967 one year prior to high school graduation. My wife and I are celebrating our 45th wedding anniversary with our children and grand children. Our grandson asked me the other day if I ever wanted to change any thing in my life. Told him no, because my failures and success made me who I am today.
    Lincoln succeeded because he had everyone of his political opponents locked away on Alcatraz. Other than that I agree with you.
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    Re: How not to be bullied.... 2014/04/19 11:33:48 (permalink)
    Ive always been able to walk away from fights. But now days, screw that! And bust/break that Cupcake nose and watch em cry and bleed like the cowards they are!
     
    Wiat, they'll just sue me, DARN, DARN, DARN!!
     
    On topic: Its the bigger man or woman that walks away. But, the sad thing is, that same bully that ya walked away from would most likely turn around come back at you and BANG. Yall want to stop bullying, start holding these douchebags accountable from the get-go, not let things go and on......................................
     
    And parents need to do the same and be consistent, and hold their kids to be responsible, respectful and accountable. And cash, or Mommy,  dosent mean the eazzy way out or this all or nothing attitudes we now see.
     
    American need to Buckle-Up (buck up), or when we see this upcoming Great Depression and or WW3, The USA is going to be so freaking screwed.....
    post edited by knightsilver - 2014/04/19 11:52:28
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    Re: How not to be bullied.... 2014/04/19 12:24:54 (permalink)
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    Ive always been able to walk away from fights. But now days, screw that! And bust/break that Cupcake nose and watch em cry and bleed like the cowards they are!
     
    Wiat, they'll just sue me, DARN, DARN, DARN!!
     
    On topic: Its the bigger man or woman that walks away. But, the sad thing is, that same bully that ya walked away from would most likely turn around come back at you and BANG. Yall want to stop bullying, start holding these douchebags accountable from the get-go, not let things go and on......................................
     
    And parents need to do the same and be consistent, and hold their kids to be responsible, respectful and accountable. And cash, or Mommy,  dosent mean the eazzy way out or this all or nothing attitudes we now see.
     
    American need to Buckle-Up (buck up), or when we see this upcoming Great Depression and or WW3, The USA is going to be so freaking screwed.....


    Back when I grew up, parents(at least in Romania) told me to fight back if someone got me in a corner. I did that, and I didn't get bullied. Sometimes bullies only bully until you get in their face - once you do that, it's over for them as they realize they lost power over you.


      


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    Re: How not to be bullied.... 2014/04/19 13:41:17 (permalink)
    Agreed Holo, but this day and age, ya got to watch you back, even if you putt a bully/some adults in their place and the next day BAM! They dont know how to handle rejection or respect.....
     
    Sounds like ya got great parents that understood tough love!
     
    I was blessed with tough parents and tougher grandparents. You didnt ask how high to jump, you just did it because of respect. 
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    Re: How not to be bullied.... 2014/04/19 18:32:32 (permalink)
    Haven't ever in my life stood to be bullied. It's sufficient to say that when it was attempted it didn't last long.

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