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Few may remember my thread about issues in th e domestic relationship, well things got worse, after the loneliest holiday season I have ever had she come with "you have leave" stuff, I have been moore than nice through this even know for 100% sure she seeing someone else and says she is in love. Ok fine we split go are seprate ways she can do what she wants. But after that she tells me just leave, give up all my hard work and I just l just lost it, took some stuff thursday and woke in the hospital Saturday.
That is I am done with relationships for good.
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Re: in the hospital over this
2014/01/05 08:57:33
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Well your friends on the forum like myself are going to give you 100 percent moral support. You've helped a lot of forum members on the forums over the years.
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Re: in the hospital over this
2014/01/05 09:03:08
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sorry to hear that man,like rj said were here for ya need anything just ask
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Re: in the hospital over this
2014/01/05 09:08:10
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Not all relationships or girls/guys are evil! I have no room to talk!
Ive never understood the whole "Im never getting married again" thing! Give your self the credit and respect you deserve, and finally give ur self that much needed time off, and free space, aka
"me time"......................................
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Re: in the hospital over this
2014/01/05 12:07:23
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Sorry to hear this Quad. Hope things get better for you.
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Re: in the hospital over this
2014/01/05 15:10:45
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Dont worry Quad !
You will find someone that loves you, as much as you love them !
Took me 41 years to find the right person !
Been together for 4 years, married the past 2 and a half.
There are other fish in the sea, and one day you will have the biggest catch of your life !
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Re: in the hospital over this
2014/01/05 19:50:57
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I felt the same way 20 yrs ago w/ 1st wife, now been w/ 2nd wife for 16 yrs, so keep your head up and stay positive. ALL will be better.
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Re: in the hospital over this
2014/01/06 06:56:24
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Sometimes it takes a few tries. 4th wife here... Going on 15 yrs. now with this one.
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Re: in the hospital over this
2014/01/06 07:40:05
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You arent done.. You say that but you will meet someone tomorrow...
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Re: in the hospital over this
2014/01/06 08:06:49
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That sucks man. Don't give up on relationships though. When you feel like you have hit bottom, there is only one direction left to go. Good Luck.
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Re: in the hospital over this
2014/01/07 10:00:06
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i feel yeah, i know the feeling all to well.. people gave me so much crap over me breaking my brand new computer i just built over a woman it wasn't even funny..in time it will pass.
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Re: in the hospital over this
2014/01/07 11:42:07
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Time will tell, someone will pass on by. Just take your time. I too had an extended time being single for about 5 years give or take, but I still had fun to get me through the times. Still took a long time to find the one for me though, ended up moving from Cali to Washington State because of her :P
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Re: in the hospital over this
2014/01/07 12:40:30
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Don't let one person ruin your outcome on life.
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Re: in the hospital over this
2014/01/07 14:30:10
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Don't let one person ruin your outcome on life.
+1 sounds like her loss dude  there are lots more fish in the sea , as "they" say ... also you might not want to take anymore of that "Stuff" 
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Re: in the hospital over this
2014/01/07 18:06:22
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my 3rd marriage were at 10 years so never give up
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Re: in the hospital over this
2014/01/08 10:58:22
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Sorry to hear that man. But don't give up on searching for your perfect match!
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Re: in the hospital over this
2014/01/16 11:49:05
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Thanks for the words everyone, after being in the hospital for 10 days and getting some help for the depression and anxiety I starting to feel better, still have some bad days but I have my girls and right now they are the most important thing. Made some other changes to the living situation until we come to a common accord on the house. But all is good.
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Re: in the hospital over this
2014/01/16 11:55:48
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I am happy to hear you are doing better. Yes, focus on your girls and yourself and the rest you can deal with in due time. Keep your head up man.
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Re: in the hospital over this
2014/01/16 12:06:00
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If you need to talk or anything like that we are here for you!!
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Re: in the hospital over this
2014/01/16 12:15:43
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Being alone might not be so bad, I've got one foot out the door after 24 yrs myself and I'm kinda looking forward to it. I really couldn't tell you who hates who more, we just deal with it for the kids. Hang in there man, take it one day at a time.
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Re: in the hospital over this
2014/01/18 05:26:40
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Being alone might not be so bad, I've got one foot out the door after 24 yrs myself and I'm kinda looking forward to it. I really couldn't tell you who hates who more, we just deal with it for the kids. Hang in there man, take it one day at a time.
No hate, was hurt and angry but never hated her. There is a lot of background I won't go into but let's just say health issues played a roll. As for me I'm just going to live my life and get my girls through college and what happens next who knows.
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Re: in the hospital over this
2014/04/20 14:48:10
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hey just to give you guys a update, while i went through a real rough spot there i came through just fine, met a great woman and getting things sorted out, never thought i would be starting over at 43 but thats life, in the long run things will be better than ever, my girls are doing great, my girlfriend is freaking awsome and it finally stopped snowing in ohio  , as for the ex well hope she is happy (she got married already  and i see bad written all over it) But i would like to thank all those for the words, much appreciated.
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Re: in the hospital over this
2014/04/20 14:51:20
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Glad to hear that. Sometimes it takes a major event in one's life to really focus on what's important, and to learn about the things that you really want and need out of another person. Hopefully, you've just opened a much more exciting and happy chapter in your life!
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Re: in the hospital over this
2014/04/20 15:36:13
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Glad to hear that. Sometimes it takes a major event in one's life to really focus on what's important, and to learn about the things that you really want and need out of another person. Hopefully, you've just opened a much more exciting and happy chapter in your life!
me too. so far i feel more alive than i have in years, many years. with the last girl finishing HS and off to college in the fall i can start enjoying the things i have put on hold for last 23 years.
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Re: in the hospital over this
2014/04/20 15:59:39
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Glad to hear things are looking up for you. 
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Re: in the hospital over this
2014/04/20 16:33:19
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Glad to hear things are looking up for you.
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Re: in the hospital over this
2014/04/20 20:20:58
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Great to hear man! Hope things work out for you
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Re: in the hospital over this
2014/04/21 06:19:00
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hey just to give you guys a update, while i went through a real rough spot there i came through just fine, met a great woman and getting things sorted out, never thought i would be starting over at 43 but thats life, in the long run things will be better than ever, my girls are doing great, my girlfriend is freaking awsome and it finally stopped snowing in ohio , as for the ex well hope she is happy (she got married already and i see bad written all over it) But i would like to thank all those for the words, much appreciated.
Good for u man! I'm 41 been married for 19 years cant imagine how hard it would be to start over,u are a STUD my freind!
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Re: in the hospital over this
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NordicJedi
Glad to hear that. Sometimes it takes a major event in one's life to really focus on what's important, and to learn about the things that you really want and need out of another person. Hopefully, you've just opened a much more exciting and happy chapter in your life!
me too. so far i feel more alive than i have in years, many years. with the last girl finishing HS and off to college in the fall i can start enjoying the things i have put on hold for last 23 years.
I just noticed you live right by me, i'm in Brunswick myself. I moved to Ohio while with my ex of 9 years..... she left me high and dry right after i moved to Ohio from NY. Took me a long time to get over it but i'm still kickn. If you ever need anything let me know man ! glad stuff is lookn up for you.
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Re: in the hospital over this
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Just as I said, someone will pass on by, and lookie here someone did and not that far up the road :) Glad to hear everything is going well now
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