Ok. I tried updating drivers first. It sat a very long time on detecting system, but they installed. Rebooted, and still same issue.
Then tried Saijins suggestion, took one card out, booted up and suddenly it saw that card fine. So i shut it down again, swapped the card with my other one, booted up, that card worked too.
So i put the first one back where 2nd was. Put in the SLI bridge, and now everything seems to work fine again.
Thanks lovely people for the help, <3 you.