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Re:VERY bad day.... 2010/01/25 16:59:04 (permalink)
I hope for the best for you and your family.
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Re:VERY bad day.... 2010/01/25 17:06:49 (permalink)
I really don't know what to say here except to wish you strength and luck.

Good luck and stay strong

 
 
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Re:VERY bad day.... 2010/01/25 18:54:41 (permalink)
 he will get better. Stay strong.

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Re:VERY bad day.... 2010/01/25 19:03:25 (permalink)
I'm very sorry AB. I hope he pulls through. God be with you and good luck.

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Re:VERY bad day.... 2010/01/25 19:06:18 (permalink)
I'm really sorry to hear this AB, I sincerely hope things will work out for your son, your family is in my prayers.

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Re:VERY bad day.... 2010/01/25 19:44:50 (permalink)
Very sorry bro, I will pray for you.

Keep us updated.

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Re:VERY bad day.... 2010/01/25 20:01:55 (permalink)
Im very sorry for you and your family, You have my deepest sympathy's. I will certainly keep you and your family in my prayers. I have a son living very far away and worry about him 24/7. I always dread when the phone rings at night.

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Re:VERY bad day.... 2010/01/25 20:22:07 (permalink)
Hey man, I am so sorry to hear about your situation, and I hope everything works out okay.



 

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Re:VERY bad day.... 2010/01/25 20:23:36 (permalink)
Your son and family are in my prayers. Very sorry to hear about this AB.


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Re:VERY bad day.... 2010/01/25 20:48:32 (permalink)
wow this is horrible... and ya the title of this thread does not do it justice.. i kinda looked at it and didn't realize how bad it really was.

im so sorry dude... and i hope he pulls through. you have my best wishes.

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Re:VERY bad day.... 2010/01/25 20:57:47 (permalink)
Thanks folks. Sorry I will not be myself for a while.....

Update is not promising. If you have had any medical training (I have, Volunteer Fireman 5+ years) you will understand what I am about to say...

His pupils are 100% unresponsive so far. His heart rate requires Medication to keep stable. He is still not waking up.

The next 48 hours will tell us if our son has any chance of survival. Not coming home mind you, but survival!

Thank you for your kind words and understanding. I can only tell you this. If anyone tries to tell you that they understand how you feel, they have no idea unless the themselves experienced this first hand. I had no idea and never even thought past watching a show (And of course relating to the situation) what this would be like. No words can describe this time with my family. No words.....

I do not preach, and I pride myself as being understanding. So I say with a heavy heart, cherish what you have. And if your head is up something. Be kind and rewind it. You will never know when or what will hit you, but it can and does.

Regardless of you beliefs and choice of prayer. Our gift of life is just that. A gift. Now how are you going to use that gift you have received? Have you earned it? Or are you still "Whoa is me" and think you're being wronged. Well put yourself in the shoes of those families in Haiti, or military families for example. Life is to short to be selfish and self centered. If you are not already doing so, please give back.

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Re:VERY bad day.... 2010/01/25 21:10:56 (permalink)
I did think it was looking good. The brain can only survive about 7 minutes without oxygen after that severe damage will occur and longer still complete brain death. I knew it wasn't going to be good by the info you posted in OP.

Though sometimes very lucky things do happen so hold strong my man.

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Re:VERY bad day.... 2010/01/25 21:22:26 (permalink)
Afterburner

Thank you for your kind words and understanding. I can only tell you this. If anyone tries to tell you that they understand how you feel, they have no idea unless the themselves experienced this first hand. I had no idea and never even thought past watching a show (And of course relating to the situation) what this would be like. No words can describe this time with my family. No words.....




There can be no truer words spoken... My friend you have my thoughts and strength, I truly wish I could send it to you and your family right now because I know you need it. I cannot imagine, but I will do what I can and pray and keep you, your son, and your family on my mind in hopes of the best.
We are here if you need us or need to let it out..
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Re:VERY bad day.... 2010/01/26 00:54:14 (permalink)
Very well said Afterburner, makes the problems I think I have seem like nothing compared to what you are going through. Reading your last post really made me stop and think. I know what its like to lose a close family member, my mother had a brain anurism 2yrs ago and she was only 57, it was very sudden and shocking and I could only imagine the pain your feeling. Right now im gonna pray for your son, for you and your entire family. God bless you Sir,  Stay Strong!!
 
 
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Re:VERY bad day.... 2010/01/26 02:23:31 (permalink)
I'm absolutely speechless about your situation bud.

I wish you and your family the best in regards to such a tragedy.  Please hold through it.  My prayers and thoughts go out to you and your son!  I'm hoping for a full recovery.  I too have lost a lot but noting can ever prepare you for such a tragedy.

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Re:VERY bad day.... 2010/01/26 04:20:17 (permalink)
i lost my best friend to a car accident which was my dad,it was the most shocking thing i ever went through,i will keep praying for you and your family and essecially your son,never give up hope or faith.

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Re:VERY bad day.... 2010/01/26 06:58:36 (permalink)
I would never attempt to say I understand. In fact, I would say without a shadow of a doubt I have no idea @ all... I have recently made alot of changes in my life to make better use of every moment I have w/ my 11 year old son terrified of something such as this or just trying to make sure I make the best of the time while dad is still cool to hang around..

I wish you and your family nothing but the best. I have no words that will comfort you or make it go away but I am terribly sorry for what has happened to your family.

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Re:VERY bad day.... 2010/01/26 07:20:41 (permalink)
i was shocked to hear this....my prayers are with you and your family....cant imagine if something like this happens to my family...

Enjoy the life and cherish each moment we live,coz we never know what comes up next......

iam too far away to come to you...but my prayers are always there to support you......good luck........
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Re:VERY bad day.... 2010/01/26 07:26:33 (permalink)
You are correct when you say that no one can understand how do you feel. However I can say good luck to your son and your family. Stay strong and hope that everything will turn to better. If you need anything just send a PM and I will do my best.

 
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Re:VERY bad day.... 2010/01/26 07:27:48 (permalink)
I am so sorry AB. My family went through something very similar 5 years ago with my oldest son. All of our hopes and prayers are with you and your son. Keep the faith bro.


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Re:VERY bad day.... 2010/01/26 13:14:03 (permalink)
I was waiting for an update and I was hoping against hope that you would come back with some glimmer of hope.  It's this point right here that I think is the hardest - not knowing what will happen.  I can relate in some small way, my niece went through a similar life or death situation... I continue to hope against hope that something will happen in the positive... all of us in the office are thinking about you...

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Re:VERY bad day.... 2010/01/26 13:20:13 (permalink)
best of luck for your son, its scary just knowing that it can happen to anyone

there is always hope, doctors are awesome and no doubt everything is being done to help


 

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Re:VERY bad day.... 2010/01/26 13:23:12 (permalink)
Best of hope to you afterburner, your son will be in my prayers.

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Re:VERY bad day.... 2010/01/26 13:28:31 (permalink)
I am so sorry about your son AB.   I wish you and yours peace, you will be in my thoughts.
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Re:VERY bad day.... 2010/01/26 13:35:23 (permalink)
I wish I could do more than just sit by and wait to hear how your son is doing AB.  My best wishes to you and your family, I continue to hope for  good news on your son.

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Re:VERY bad day.... 2010/01/26 13:43:18 (permalink)
I hope everything's okay with your son AB, take care

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Re:VERY bad day.... 2010/01/26 13:50:54 (permalink)
Very sorry to hear that and i hope that every thing works out for him. I have a 25 year old boy and twin 7 year old boy and girl. and i hug them every chance i get.

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Re:VERY bad day.... 2010/01/26 14:52:43 (permalink)
I'm praying for you and your son AB. Really sorry to hear of this and the horrible pain it brings to you and your family

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Re:VERY bad day.... 2010/01/26 16:02:14 (permalink)
D:

i will keep your family in my prayers!
do keep us updated tho.
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Re:VERY bad day.... 2010/01/26 16:05:51 (permalink)
Whatever you do AB, don't give up hope. Even with his pupils being unresponsive(I know what that entails).. You can't give up. I won't.

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